Heather Rae Youngis over being compared toChristina Anstead.

During a Q&A session with herInstagramfollowers on Thursday, Young made it clear that she is not trying to morph into boyfriendTarek El Moussa‘s ex-wife, calling the idea that she’s “trying” to emulate theFlip or Flopstar’s appearance a “ridiculous” one.

“Are you trying to look like Christina?” one Instagram user asked theSelling Sunsetstar.

“How would I be ‘trying to look like someone?'” Young, 32, replied, along with some laughter emojis. “Last time I checked I’ve looked like this my whole life.”

Young then joked, “Yes that’s my ultimate goal and I even rushed to a doctor to change my whole appearance!!!”

“Come on guys… let’s stop being ridiculous,” she added.

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Heather Young, Christina El Moussa

Whether Anstead, 36, and Young look alike or not, the two women get along well, Young said in a response to another question.

The real estate agent also said that she gets along great with El Moussa’s children, 9-year-old Taylor Reese and 4-year-old Brayden James, who he shares with Anstead.

“Amazing!!” Young answered when asked what her relationship to the kids is like.

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Now, Young, El Moussa, Anstead and her husband keep up a cordial relationship, and the entire groupcelebrated Halloween together.

“It was a lot of fun — we took the kids out and it was the first time we all got together,” El Moussa told PEOPLE at the time.

Then in November, Young spent somequality time with Braydenas they cheered on Taylor at a soccer game.

“I just had to share this because it melts my heart :),” El Moussa wrote alongside a photo of Brayden making himself comfortable on Young’s lap as they watched the game.

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Tarek El Moussa and Heather Rae Young

Young previously won over Taylor’s heart after the elementary schooler invited her to join a father-daughter date at the 21 Oceanfront Restaurant.

“For the past few years, Tay and I have always gone to her favorite steakhouse!” El Moussa said in anInstagram postin September. “It’s special to her because it’s a ‘me and her only’ dinner spot. This time she asked me if we could bring @heatherraeyoung and my heart melted.”

Anstead and El Moussafiled for divorcein 2017,finalizing their splitin January 2018. Anstead has since married Ant Anstead, with whom she shares sonHudson London, who was born in September.

source: people.com