Odette Annableis reflecting on the highs and lows of the past decade.

Amid herdivorce from husband Dave Annableafter nearly a decade of marriage, Odette shared an Instagram photo Sunday of a building with graffiti that reads, “I know everything happens for a reason. But what the f—.”

In the caption, theTell Me a Storyactress opened up about the impact the past decade has had on her.

“I am incredibly grateful for the last 10 years,” she said. “They were the best of times and the worst of times. They shaped me, I grew. My goal for the new decade, in addition to promising myself to never stop learning and growing, is to try to be the best version of myself.”

In October 2019, Odette, 34, and Dave, 40,announced their separationin an exclusive joint statement to PEOPLE.

“It’s with heavy hearts that we have come to the mutual decision to separate at this time,” they said. “Our daughter is our primary concern and we remain committed to co-parenting her together. We ask that you please respect our family’s privacy at this time.”

Dave and Odette share a 4-year-old daughter Charlie. Theytied the knotin a private ceremony in Ojai, just north of Los Angeles, on Oct. 10, 2010.

Odette Annable and Dave Annable in May 2019.Rachel Murray/Getty Images for City Year Los Angeles

City Year Los Angeles

News of the split came just over a month after theBrothers & Sisters starannounced he wasscaling back on using social mediaafter experiencing feelings of depression and anxiety.

The actor added that while he’ll be staying “active with posting cause it’s now a part of our job,” he “won’t be comparing” his life to what he sees on social media anymore.

Dave last posted a photo with Odette in July 2019, posting a throwback from when the actress was pregnant with their daughter. Odette shared a photo of the two posing together on a red carpet in late September 2019.

source: people.com